Merry Christmas and Happy New Year from the ECC
Posted December 4th, 2009
Central Florida Episcopalian:
Around the Diocese
Ah, Christmas! For many of us, it’s that most special time of the year. The smells, the food – and candies, the laughter, the gathering of family and friends, the office parties.
Then there are the poinsettias and garland, the wreath on the door, the candles glowing, the church pageants, the incense, and trying hard to stay awake for midnight mass.
For some, it’s the vision of snow and feeling the warmth of a crackling fire and the smell of burning wood.
Whether real or just a memory tucked away, thinking of what lies ahead can feel so good and remind us of many, many Christmases past.
And yet, what about this holiday?
Will it be Christmas as usual, or will this be a time to consider one of the more traditional Christmases past? You know, one where it’s less about things and more about sharing ourselves with others, as well as family.
Parents and spouses, have you talked among yourselves about what expectations and values you would like to put forth this season because the finances tell us to go slowly? Paring down may bring greater joy and a peace. Talk to the children and talk with your parents.
Truly, one of the best holidays I can recall was the time my own family had little extra but did much. We agreed that nothing would be purchased that could not be paid for. As a family we spent many evenings around the tree enjoying popcorn and homemade cookies.
Neighbors came to mingle and talk. My husband and I chose several gifts for the children but we agreed that for ourselves, nothing beyond the decorated tree (we have collected ornaments through the years), a baked turkey dinner with all the trimmings, and we attended our church celebrations. My husband and I needed that respite. And we felt blessed. I think a lot of joy came in just being – being in the family and being able to sense the presence of the Spirit of Christmas.
Everyone is different but consider what will work for you and yours this year. In many ways, may you find yourselves richly blessed. Pay attention, and reach out to others, if you find the opportunity. Be creative. Give thanks for this year and pray for the New Year!
The Episcopal Counseling Center staff wishes you wellness from our house to yours.
Remember, we are here to serve you, in the New Year.
Submitted by Barbara Keene, Ph.D. Dr. Keene is on the staff of the Episcopal Counseling Center.
Want more information? Contact the Episcopal Counseling Center
of Central Florida, Inc. at 1-800-544-1817 or (407) 423-3327 or visit www.ecc1021.com
